John was an unsuccessful man, his wife left her with his two kids. He was facing continuous failure in life for many years. He has started many businesses but as usual failed. But he never give up and always tried to change his current situation to better situation. He was alone because his best buddies including his wife left his, but one thing was keeping him on the track of success and that was self motivation. Books reading was his hobby and he always read about successful people including unsuccessful people. Because successful people gave him motivation while reading unsuccessful people he found the mistakes that they had done. At last he started a new business in which he got marvellous success. It was the result of self motivation. Now today he is living happily with his new wife(of course new because old one did not deserve him who left him while he was in crisis) with his kids. He has new house along-with new car and peace of mind.
In this story we can see the power of self motivation, when you are alone and feeling low then no one can motivate you except you. Remember it that people only go with the wind and they only stand with those people who are successful. No one will want to stay with unsuccessful people including you. So if you are feeling alone and seems that no one is with you then do not worry, it does not matter because you are always with you.
How can we motivate our-self
it is the big question. When we have failed then it is natural to feel low. It is quite normal but taking it personal is a bad thing. Because fail and success is the part of life. Now we have to analyse our failure why we got failed. Analyze the steps one by one and take this failure as a lesson. Have a look about which part of your plan was weak, Suppose you have started a shop and after six months you feel that it is not going fail and you are about to close your business. Then analyse about your strategy, Have you done researched about your business well? Do you know about the product you are selling? Product you are selling has demand in that area? Are you open your shop punctually? and find out what was the reason. Then you will certainly get the result that why you was failed. So this time plan perfectly and start this with new enthusiasm and well planned strategy. Do not doubt yourself and do not blame luck. It is not the matter of luck it was just matter of strategy and planning. So plan well next time and start with new power, you will get success.
In the end I will finish this article with this proverb “If you fall seven times then stand up eight.” No one can defeat you until unless you are not accepting defeat.
